I would like her to be part of the wedding because of how important she’s been to me, but she stubbornly insists on “winning me back” from my fiancée.

My sister and my fiancee got along great during the years we were still just “boyfriend and girlfriend,” but after we announced our engagement, my sister became hostile. As it turns out, my sister took her intention to marry me seriously,

My younger sister and I were close growing up. We didn’t have many friends, and we were always willing to play games and have fun with each other. Dear Abby: Our kids’ dentist refuses to deal with my husband,

"At one point, my sister said she wanted to marry me when we grew up. I didn’t think much of it because we were still kids, and I figured she didn’t know there were different types of love."

My younger sister and I were close growing up. We didn’t have many friends, but we were always willing to play games and have fun with each other. At one point, my sister said she wanted to marry me when we grew up.

I've always been close to my sister, and when we were young she said she wanted to marry me when we grew up. What I didn't realize was she was serious. And now that I'm engaged, she's hostile. What should I do?

Your sister is in need of the services of a mental health professional to rid herself of her fixation on you. She should NOT be part of your wedding because her presence under the circumstances could be disruptive.